About Me 


I am Pam Shaffer, a licensed psychotherapist. I provide individual and couples therapy online for California residents using a secure video platform and in person sessions for clients in Los Angeles.

You may also call me a compassionate guide that helps you through the ups and downs of life with pragmatism and a bit of magic. I am poly, kink, and LGBTQ+ affirmative and I mainly help people who are experiencing difficulty in their relationships and professional and creative lives.

My specialities include helping people who are struggling with the effects of depression, anxiety, C-PTSD and ADHD.

I know from my own experience exploring my identity as musician, therapist and recovered manic pixie dream girl that it's possible to thrive in your relationships, enjoy your creative endeavors, and maintain a healthy relationship with work so you can lead your best life. It is one of my greatest joys to help my clients delve into the messy work of becoming their most integrated self, knowing that it’s possible to lead an authentic, inspired life. I believe self knowledge and compassion are the keys to changing your world and that trust and compatibility are the key ingredients to a great therapeutic journey.

Take the next step towards your best self by calling or texting me at (323) 301-3129 to set up a free 15 minute consultation.

Open to all California residents online

For Los Angeles area clients, I am located at:

8235 Santa Monica Blvd Suite 400 Los Angeles CA 90046


10am-10pm Sunday through Thursday


Education + Qualifications